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News! News! Where do I start? There seems to be so many exciting things going on around here that I just love to see how God is somehow keeping a bit of sanity within the ministry even when I fee like life is a bit out of my control.

I feel very blessed to be able to do what I love... and that is to do anything to reach out to more people who have a chronic illness and get them plugged in. Plugged into something that will encourage them and lead them to the Lord--or closer to the Lord. Because only then can we find comfort in knowing things are under His control if not our own.

I won't get into details here but be sure to check out my blog for a few things:

  1. I updated a bit about my personal life, including some health struggles my son is coping with. If you're interested, I covet your prayers.
  2. I recently had the opportunity to go up to the new building of Joni and Friends International Disability Center, since Rest Ministries is an affiliate of Joni and Friends. I've posted a bit about my trip and many photos of the beautiful center.

On a personal note, please keep me and the ministry in prayer. Oct 27-28 I will be in Pasadena for the Joni and Friends International Disability Ministry Summit. I have the wonderful opportunity to lead a networking group Friday night and speak Saturday about INVISIBLE disabilities and chronic illness to church pastors and staff. My husband and son will be traveling with me and my mom is flying down from Oregon. Between all of us we hope to cover the exhibit table the 2 days, entertain Joshua, and have something God-ordained come out of my mouth that will impact people.

Traveling is always difficult physically, as is stamina for these events. Please pray that God provides supernatural strength, an ability to sleep well, and that people are responsive to our message. Oh, and that we make it through the LA traffic without any mishaps!

On another note... hopekeepers Magazine is getting back on schdule and I will let you know when it ships so you can watch for it. I am finishing up the editing now. And we've got our podcasts nearly ready to go with a whole new line of HOPE ENDURES fun stuff--- even Christmas cards! So read on! I've put my heart and sleeping hours into this ezine to hope it encourages you! I pray that God blesses you richly and that you see how God can make miracles out of total messes (like my office or my body!) Never give up hope!

Lisa Copen
Rest Ministries Founder/Director

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Did you know Rest Ministries now has it's own publishing branch? You can visit the web site at www.restpublishers.com. And 3 of our books (Mosaic Moments, Why Can't I Make People Understand and Beyond Casseroles: 505 Ways to Encourage a Chronically Ill Friend) are now available through distributors such as Ingram and Spring Arbor.

What this means is you can walk into any Barnes and Noble, Borders, or your local Christian store and if our book isn't on the shelf, ask them to order it.

And here is a hint... even if you have it... if you want to buy one for a friend, just tell the clerk "how wonderfully helpful" it is and suggest they may want to order two or three instead of just the one for you.

This is how it works... and this is how Chicken Soup books have sold millions of copies. So any way you can humor me to help us get the books out there is appreciated!

We're also a member of the Christian Small Publishers Association and the Evangelical Press Association.


hopenotes took a hiatus while we published the UPDATE for Invisible Illness Week, so the last time I checked in with you I was excited to be going to the International Christian Retail Show. Here is one of my favorite photos of me and my friend Allison Bottke (but don't you hate posing with a former model who always looks graet?) Allison does all the God Allows U-Turns books.

 

 

We're continuing to get rave reviews on our powerful little book, Beyond Casseroles: 505 Ways to Encourage a Chronically Ill Friend.

Our plan for 2008 is to have this book available as a "promotional" item, meaning groups like the Arthritis Foundation or churches, etc. could order them in bulk with the choice of a cover, their own logo and endorsement on the back. This is a great gift for their volunteers!

If you know of someone we should contact, please email us their contact information and when we get going on this, we'll send them information in 2008.

>>> As a subscriber of this ezine you get to have access to the first 40 pages. You can download it here or open up the pdf file of it here. (Wow! Pass this link on to friends who may also be interested!)


Special sauce, lettuce, cheese on
a. . .pumpkin?

Here's an idea for all of you who aren't feeling creative with your gourd! (Guaranteed to score a few points with the kiddos)

No trip is complete to ICRS without getting one's photo with Veggie Tales (I had to have a good reason to tell my son why I was gone for 5 days.) And yes, that's me actually getting to SIGN books for people... I even had a line! (whoo hoo!) It was very humbling... but also reassuring that so many bookstore owners were enthusiastic about books on the topic of illness!

 

A cool review we wanted to share!

You will be seeing this logo around our web site in a bunch of places soon as we are about to start broadcasting our new podcast Hope Endures Through Illness. You will be able to listen to it...

(1) online, just click the link we provide and listen through your computer speakers;

(2) upload it onto your ipod or MP3 player;

OR.... get this... (3) You can call a phone number and listen to it. The only cost would be for the call. Programs will typically run about 24 minutes with special guests being interviewed by me (Lisa Copen). So, stay tuned and we'll let you know when we are "live." Look out radio world, here we come!

  • Tiles, cute coasters or frame them!
  • Travel mugs
  • Notecard
  • T-shirts
  • Scriptures that reflect on your windshield!
  • Fleece jackets-now availabl for pre-order!
  • Magnets
  • Keychains
  • Belleti Tote Bag (very cute! Pefect size to carry your stuff in for a Bible Study!

 

REST MINISTRIES VERY
OWN CHRISTMAS CARD!

We are excited to offer this box of Christmas cards especially designed for Rest Ministries with the inside poetry written by one of our hopekeepers leaders, Alice Ervin. One box of 18 (in a cute little box with a gold band) sells for $9.00 and any profit will help Rest Ministries.

They should arrive by October 31, 2007 and can be shipped to you immediately, so get working on your Christmas card list. This is a wonderful way to spread the Good News for 2007 while blessing the ministry too!

Click here for larger images

Don't forget to tell your family and friends we will have
Christmas cards. We'll have the link up to order soon
and will let you know in a special email.

 

JONI IS COMING TO
TV OCT 19TH

We're very happy to announce that Joni Eareckson Tada has a new television show starting on October 19t and airing on Direct TV (They are working on having it held on other televsion broadcasting options.) It's a wonderful half hour program that will leave you rivetted to your seat (trust me, I saw one of the pre-produced programs and it was fabulous!) ...

The stories are "hard"-- they do remind us that life is not easy. But when people who have survived the unthinkable look into the camera and say "God is still in control..." Well, let's just say if you were having a bad day or wondering if life was worth living, God could really reach you with this TV show. ~Lisa


hopekeepers Magazine Update--Yes! We were caught up...and then our designer lost the whole thing in a lightening storm. ARGH!! She's so apologetic and working to get it back to me FAST... You'd think I was making this stuff up, but it's really just Satan trying to prevent it from getting out there! Hang in there with me friends, it's truly coming soon! I just got my copy to finish up editing and then we'll soon be on our way to the printers. Please PRAY FOR IT all to be trouble-free from here on out!


Need "Illness Stories" for Chicken Soup Book Pitch

I've decided to pitch a book to "Jack and Mark" (the soup guys) for a Chicken Soup for those with chronic illness. I am looking for the "best of the best" stories to include with my proposal. DEADLINE: 2 WEEKS, OCTOBER 26, 2007 - for details about what I am looking for and chapter titles, see http://www.restministries.org/admin-chickensoup.htm -- Please post this where anyone else may be interested! Thanks for your help!


What does Julia Roberts, Montel Williams and and golfer Casey Martin have in common?

And why should you care? Because we're putting together a book about a bunch of ways friends have reached out to them during difficult times--sort of a "Beyond Casseroles, celebrity style." It has the working title, "When I was Blue You Comforted Me: Celebrities Share How Friends Got Them Through Their Darkest Moments."

We are contacting as many celebrities as we can find, especially those who have a heart for those with chronic illness. We hope to send them copies of "Beyond Casseroles" and let them know we exist (and Invisible Illness Week). If you know a celebrity who we should contact let us know (as in, your neighbor's sister who is a nanny for a celebrity - ha!) or if you know of one with a health-related cause that few people know about, we want to know that too, even if you just read it in People magazine.

Please send any suggestions to rest@restministries.org . Yes, I had this idea months ago, but in light of many celebrities darker moments like Owen Wilson's attempt to take his life, we think this encouragment could be interesting... and... it would lead them to Rest Ministries and people like you who REALLY know how to fill that hole in their lives-- through Jesus!

 

We have a new Tract!

This 5.5 x 3 inch tract leads people through the challenges of feeling like no one understands their chronic illness which is oftentimes invisible. Based on Why Can't I Make People Understand? Discovering the Validation those with Chronic Illness Seek and Why by Lisa Copen

$3.00/pack of 25 - Order here and see a larger size


 

New Book Coming Soon From Rest Ministries

I am so excited about a new book by our "resident doctor," Amy Chai, who has generously donated her entire book to Rest Ministries. And it's GOOD. We are putting the finishing touches on the cover and then will go to print soon. The working title is Instead of a Thorn Bush a Cypress Will Grow: Meditations on a Thorn in the Flesh and it has 31 days of devotionals and questions for you to work through. Her personal story will both awe and inspire you and she shares her own struggles on a complicated journey of illness.



Special Thanks To. . .

Fabulously Forty who posted Lisa's article, "Can People with Invisible Illness Park in the Blue Spots without Others Seeing Red."

IBS Tales Hope Award
We're excited to win "The Hope Award" given by the IBS Tales. They are presented to websites that offer positive support and encouragement to anyone suffering from a chronic medical problem. In particular, the awards recognise websites that: (1) offer accurate information and resources for patients; (2) encourage sufferers to search for new treatments and hope; (3) refuse to accept inadequate medical advice or doctors who tell us to "learn to live with it"! We're honored!

 


I went on line looking for desktop wall paper. I don't really know how--but I came across [Rest Ministries'] site and have been reading it each day. I believe it was the hand of God directing things, even on the internet, because I had not heard of this ministry before. But I am so grateful that you are there. I am inside quiet a bit, especially in the winter months.I have had several back surgeries, the most recent in 2004. I have titanium rods and fusion in my lower back.I have had fibromyalgia for 20+ years. Needless to say I have been dealing with bouts of depression during all these years of pain.There seems to be no permanent answers to this pain, but we must keep on praying and trying different methods--knowing that God's grace is sufficient--even though at times we feel like we don't have another ounce of strength. He promises to hold us and remind us that He is still in control. I am so thankful for that and to have been led to this site where I can read the words of others who are hopeful in that same promise. I look forward each day to reading more from Rest Ministries." --from a member of our RM family

 

 

 

"Splashes of Joy" Mods get together for 5th year!

Here is a fun photo of the "Splashes of Joy Ladies" who were at Atlantic Beach for a get-together this summer: Nancy Brown, Sheryl Smith, Patty Hartman, Carlene Bean, Lea McKenzie, Kat Avery, the founder of Splashes of Joy, and Narelle Buckman (who flew all the way from New Zealand!!). Three of the ladies' husbands, Noval Smith, Bobby Bean, and Mike McKenzie, were also able to come - the ladies were the "beach babes" and the men were the "lifeguards."

Atlantic Beach is a delightful spot on the coast in North Carolina, about five hours' drive from Richmond. Our accommodation, the Sea Hawk Lodge, was right on the waterfront, on the shores of the Atlantic Ocean! 2007 was the fifth year the Splash ladies had stayed at the Sea Hawk.

I feel very blessed to have had the opportunity to meet with so many of the other moderators of Splashes of Joy, they are all exceptional women from places like Ohio, Florida, Pennsylvania, North Carolina, Virginia, and of course, Australia! We laughed a lot - the sense of humour was quite off the wall. Yes, I did participate in that, even if only a bit.

Everywhere we went, we were telling people that we were a group of Christian women who lived with depression or some form of chronic illness, and it was an effective witnessing tool. At one point, Lea said we gave depression a bad name we were having so much fun. We walked on the beach, ate, shopped, ate, walked on the beach, ate, and did lots of laughing as well as the praying and ministering to one another.

Sunday morning, our whole group met for church in one of our rooms - 10 people altogether - officiated if you like, by two pastor-types - Lea's husband, Mike and Sheryl's husband, Noval. We sang some favourite hymns, had communion which was prepared by Sheryl, Noval shared a message about living for God in tough conditions, and I sang 'The Holy City'. I hadn't really sung FOR anyone, except feeding myself music in my car, since...well, for some time.

We also experienced an amazing time of prayer, both Sunday morning and Monday night, praying for the members of Splashes of Joy, as well as for each of those assembled - very special. ~Narelle

 

The patient is always right when...

Okay, we found this on a doctor's organization's web site. We won't blow their cover (they are allowed to have a place to vent too.) It may not give you a giggle, but perhaps a feeling of "I knew they had a secret code..."


No placard? No problem!

Just use your bionic powers to pull the sign out of the ground and now you can park close without the risk of getting a ticket. I actually saw this at my local grocery store and happened to have my camera. Hmmm...


 

 

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Books to bring you comfort

As Thanksgiving approaches this is a nice time to reflect on our true friends--and also think about those who we may want to get in touch with again. This little story may "hit the nail on the head" for some of us. It's a nice reminder to love the ones we're with and to know when to admit we're sorry.


NAIL IN THE FENCE

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.

The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered
it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the
boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.

He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there. " A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.

Friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us.
YOU ARE MY FRIEND AND I AM HONORED!

Now send this to every friend you have! And to
your family.

Please forgive me if I have ever left a hole.

--Author Unknown


Two conferences of interest:

Pasadena, CA
Oct 26-28

Lisa is excited to be speaking at this conference and leading a networking group for those with invisible illness or invisible disabilities (whoo hoo!) Joni Eareckson Tada and Nick Vujicic are the feature speakers.

Join us for...

  • 4 Powerful General Sessions
  • 26 Dynamic New Workshops
  • Open Forum & Networking Sessions
  • Next Step Forum and Breakfast with National Disability Leaders
  • Experience a Disability Ministry Sunday
  • Visit In His Image Special Needs Ministry Classrooms
    >> More Info


Ridgecrest Conference Center - October 25-28, 2007

A conference for caregivers, church staff, lay leaders, and others who care. This conference is designed to reach those who are searching for spiritual comfort, relief, and direction as they experience the loss, frustration, anger, grief, and hopefully, with Christ, the joy of caregiving.
A Caregiver Symposium for Church, Staff, and Lay Leaders
October 25-26, 2007 - Ridgecrest, NC
>> More info


* As with any health information you receive, check with your doctor before
taking anything. No information provided by Rest Ministries is meant to be health advice.

 

 

 


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