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Coping
with an invisible condition What
makes an illness or condition visible or invisible? Assistive
devices, body appearance, and behaviour tell others you are ill
or disabled. Devices include canes, wheelchairs, walkers, crutches,
braces. Most of these are used for mobility. Body appearance can
be things like . . . by Dr. Brian Grady
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50
Ways to Encourage a Chronically Ill Friend
Want to help but don't know where to start? We all have those
times we don't have a clue what to say or what to do (like bring
another casserole- gasp!) These are 50 ways reprinted from Beyond
Casseroles: 505 Ways to Encourage a Chronically Ill Friend.
. .by Lisa Copen
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When
the Pain is Invisible "But you look so good!" "I
can tell you must be feeling better. You look great!" "I'm so
glad you were able to come. Thank goodness you finally are getting
some relief." To a healthy person, none of these comments seem
unusual or insincere. Our friends are simply trying to find the
right thing to say. Of course, they really do believe that you
must be feeling better or you wouldn't be out of bed... by Lisa
Copen
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Why
Seeing is Not Always Believing Has
someone ever said to you, "You look great!" while inside
you felt fatigued or were in profound pain? People who live with
ongoing pain and chronic health challenges face such dilemmas
every day. Since many ongoing symptoms often do not manifest outwardly,
people sometimes have a difficult. . .By Carol Sveilich, MA. author
of Just Fine: Unmasking Concealed Chronic Illness And Pain
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Reinvent
Your Dreams Often
when we are sidelined with pain and illness, we stop dreaming
- about who we want to become, what we want to do, things we want
to experience, how we want to impact the world. This often leads
to a profound sense of loss, fear, frustration, and sometimes
depression. We can become trapped and immobilized by not only
our physical pain, but our emotional distress as well. By Joanna
Wasmuth, founder of Harmony Coaching Group
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6
Ways to Let Those with Chronically Illness in Your Church Know You
Care Nearly
1 in 2 people in the U.S. have a chronic condition. If its
not you, its someone sitting next to you. Too often, a chronic
illness, such as fibromyalgia, or a chronic condition like back
pain from a car accident, is invisible. Those who live with chronic
illnesses do everything they can to look presentable, get to church,
and sit through the service. But as someone with rheumatoid arthritis,
as I stood during worship. . .
By Lisa Copen
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How Does Social Security Define Disability Anyway?
Have you ever wondered what the definition of
disability is? I know you have
we all believe we know who
is disabled and who is not. Heck, you can tell just
by looking at a person! Doctors are usually certain they know
whether their patients meet the definition of disabled...
by Scott Davis,
Esq.
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When a Friend Has a Chronic Illness: What to Say How to Help When
a friend is diagnosed with a chronic illness the natural cycle
of healing doesn't take place. What do we say? Do we encourage
her to remain hopeful? Chronic illness is permanent and often
degenerative, requiring her to change nearly everything about
her life. The emotions that accompany these changes in her life
are often more difficult to cope with than the pain itself...
by Lisa Copen
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How
Do I Make People Understand? "I don't understand
why you won't at least take his phone number; he's a Christian
and he specializes in herbal remedies. He could heal you and then
you could share his success with everyone and that could be your
ministry
" by Lisa Copen
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When Friends Just Don't Understand As I hang up the phone
from a talk with a friend who I hadn't spoken with in months,
I smile at the sense of renewal I feel. Nothing can replace a
good laugh with someone who knows you well and loves you anyway.
Friendships are one of the greatest... by Lisa Copen
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One
Woman Shares Her Story
"I cannot
tell you how many times I have heard the phrase 'But you Look
So Good!!' or 'you look good, so you must not be in pain. . ."
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Seeing
Invisble Disabilities Jesus had a way of seeing what others
missed and ministering to those who were forgotten, shunned, or
misunderstood. He touched and healed lepers when everyone else
scurried away. He cared for those with chronic afflictions
such as congenital blindness and incurable hemorrhage while
others gave up. He bestowed hope where others scattered the ashes
of despair... by Dr. Groothuis.
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When
You're Spouse Doesn't Believe that You are Ill The doctor
couldn't find anything wrong with her, despite her complaints
about pain and extreme fatigue. He left the room and her husband
came back a few minutes later. "Hi, Honey," she replied to her
spouse, as she carefully reached out for his hand. But he didn't
reach out to take her outstretched hand; he just let it sit there
empty on the scratchy hospital blanket. He looked at her with
tired eyes, full of frustration... by Lisa Copen
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Winning Your Disability Case in Three Words
Frequency, Severity
and Duration In a disability case, almost any symptom
or limitation can be disabling; but to determine whether they
preclude work, the relevant questions are how frequent, how severe,
and how long do they last?...by
Scott Davis, Esq.
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When
Friends Turn Away In my life friends have come and gone
like autumn leaves in a fall rainstorm; momentary blazes of color,
until the ill-wind blows. With every leaf that fell from my fragile
friendship tree, they drained the sap of life from my very heart...
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But
They LOOK So Good! Surprisingly, more than 125
million Americans have at least one chronic condition. Nearly
half have more than one. An illness or injury is considered chronic,
when it lasts a year or longer, limits activity and may require
ongoing care... by Sherri Connell
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Making
Desirable Changes Health problems and symptoms, with
the possible exception of pure genetic disorders, carry a signal
to change. Even the flu tells us to rest and take Vitamin C. The
message can be as obvious as, "get better shoes," if
our feet hurt, or it may be hard to decipher. It can relate to
an internal issue, like a headache that means, "Stop trying
to be the perfect mother, already!" Or it could be telling
us about an external change...By David Spero, RN
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I Never Know What to Say or Do! Have you ever wanted
to encourage someone with a chronic illness, but it seems like
you never know what to say? Moreover, when you finally think of
something you just know will make them smile, do they snap back
at you with frustration? Well, you are not... by Sherri Connell
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No
Cast, No Cane, No Pain Have you ever seen someone get
out of a car parked in a space reserved for the disabled, who
did not LOOK disabled? Did it make you very uncomfortable or...
by Sherri Connell
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